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Intimate Weddings in and around Bishop's Stortford: Your Perfect Day Awaits

In 2019, I embarked on a journey that led me to say 'I do' to a small, intimate wedding that was truly magical even if it was tinged with sadness due to my Father’s ill health. As a photographer myself, I understood the importance of capturing every precious moment of our special day. However, I encountered a common challenge - most photographers only offered full-day packages, which didn't align with our vision for a shorter, more intimate registry wedding.

Faced with this dilemma, I decided to take matters into my own hands and revolutionise the wedding photography industry. Introducing wedding photography packages specifically tailored for intimate celebrations lasting no more than 4 hours.

Whether you're exchanging vows on a weekday or a weekend, I am here to provide you with affordable options that cater to your unique needs. Say 'yes' to capturing your love story in a way that perfectly fits your journey together.

At Donna Duke-Llande Photography, we believe that every moment, no matter how small, deserves to be cherished and immortalised. Let us be a part of your special day and help you create lasting memories that you will treasure for a lifetime. Say 'I do' to intimate wedding photography that captures the essence of your love story.

Content Branding Sessions

One of the hardest aspects of owning a business is having to advertise and promote it- especially if you use socials in which to engage with your clients.

Facebook and Instagram are still exceptional marketing tools, but having to take photographs and write captions takes up a lot of time. Using a camera phone creates great results but it doesn’t often look professional and depending on how you want to market your brand this can hinder the client you’re after.

This is where I come in. I hold branding days for local businesses where I go into your place of work and photograph as much content as I can and deliver the high resolution and low resolution files to you, so you have all the marketing material you need. Whether that’s for printing, website or socials.

My online galleries are easily accessible and if you have a website manager you can just give them access to your online gallery so it removes that extra work of having to source the perfect image and wasting hours of your day.

These branding sessions can be one offs or you can book them in multiple times during a year so you have content that takes you throughout the seasons- especially important for those of you that use the holidays as part of your marketing efforts (Valentines, Easter, Halloween, Christmas).

My job as always is to make running your business easier and more efficiently and these days definitely do that.

Contact me for more information on my content branding session.


Here are a few brands that I’ve worked with in the last couple of months::

Helen Cowley Riding Academy

That’s Sooo You

The Little Arts Workshop

Carter Hair and Make Up

The 40/40 Exhibition

What can I say other than thank you for supporting my first exhibition featuring so many of you at The Belgian Brewer!

I started this project when I was 37 and I started having that panic moment over the concept of turning 40. So I did what I do best and I confronted those feelings by starting The 40 over 40 Project and honestly it’s been the best therapy for me. I have met so many of you and you are all so individually inspiring. I think back to how I felt about turning 40 at the start of this project and I’m embarrassed. I’m embarrassed over the pre conceived ideas I had over what turning 40 meant. Very clearly the media and all the anti ageing ads had made me feel that getting older just wasn’t ok. And then I met all of you… women climbing mountains, women who are enjoying the most incredibly adventurous lives. Women telling me stories over what they’ve achieved and what they want to achieve. Women who love themselves without shame or disappointment. And of course one woman who would have given anything to have reached her next decade, who we sadly lost not long after her session.

What I‘ve learnt is that in your 40’s you all seem so much more accepting over who you are and what has come before and what will come after. Your lives are intermingled with grief, joy, pleasure and occasionally despair but ultimately you’ve never felt more alive. There’s a sense of security and freedom. And so as I enter the final years of my 30’s I’m excited (turning 39 this week and I couldn’t be happier with who and where I am). And I want to make sure I fully embrace turning 40 by writing a bucket list of 40 things I want to achieve before I turn 40. I’m going to celebrate and look forward to being able to say I’m 40 and proud.

So not only am I saying thank you to you for being part of this project , but it’s also a thanks by showing me and guiding me towards something I was fearing. You paved the way to help me accept myself, and I hope thorough our photoshoot I was able to do the same for you. I hope I was able to show you just how incredible you are and how much you inspire me. I wanted to show you how I see you and in turn how the world sees you.

The incredible posters on the night of the exhibition didn’t survive the strong strength glue to keep them in place, but so many of you wanted to have your posters so I’m offering them to you to purchase at £40 each. I’ll be popping an order over to Douglas who designed and created them. So make sure to follow the link if you wanted your poster too.

Enjoy these images by Maria Akore who was also part of The 40/40 Project herself.


Donna Duke
How confronting my insecurities led to self acceptance

Having a photoshoot can seem really self indulgent at first, but when you find the right photographer it can be one of the most therapeutic experiences you can have.

There are thousands of photographers out there- even in Bishop’s Stortford alone. We all work within different genres but I’m the only photographer that works solely with women and I believe that’s because I lead with empathy and a genuine want to help you see yourself whether you love what you see in the mirror, or there are issues that you focus on and struggle to accept.

I know what it’s like to focus on a body part and truly struggle to love it. So today I wanted to tell you my story which starts back in my teenage years. A story which has seen me overcome a hatred for my body and has helped me accept and no longer focus on my body image in the way I had previously.

As you read it I want you to think about how reframing your mindset could lead you to that freedom you don’t currently think is possible.

I went to the extreme really to help me overcome my issues, you certainly don’t need to go to that extent (read on and you’ll understand what I mean). But the lesson I learnt ultimately was that by being able to see myself through other people’s eyes it gave me the permission I needed to stop that internal battle.

My story focuses on my breasts.

So this story is always going to be intermingled with sexuality simply because of the nature of the area I struggled with and the era in which I grew up where there was a heavy emphasis on sexualising the female body- not something that the today me would encourage unless it is a personal requirement for you to deal with those emotions. And actually even going through it for me, the process was never sexual it was always about acceptance.

In my late teenage years my chest had a growth spurt. I went from being a B cup which I was quite happy with as I was a typical tom boy kind of girl that loved sports, to suddenly developing G cup breasts overnight- or at least it seemed that way.

The reality was I just didn’t notice until people started pointing out to me that I had “massive breasts”. I liked being the non descript girl at school. Attention made me uncomfortable so you can imagine how I felt when suddenly I was getting attention because of the size of my boobs.

At the time I was living abroad. My dad had a job that took our family to Singapore, so to have this sudden growth spurt in a country where actually the women as a population were generally smaller was difficult. It was impossible to find bras that fit me. C cup was the maximum cup size the shops would typically stock. It made my already awkward body feel even more ridiculous. There were no bras for a girl my size. As a teenager I felt so uncomfortable in the body I had. I’d wear bras that were too small and then I’d wear a tight black boob tube on top of my bras which essentially pushed my boobs down- I was basically binding my own breasts. Visually it made my chest look smaller than I was, which gave me the confidence to continue being the old me. The less visual my breasts were, the less comments I’d receive.

My mum knew all about my breast issues, but as an A cup and my sister being a B cup my family didn’t really know best on how to support me as a young teenager. She knew how upsetting my breasts made me feel, so she took me to the doctors to discuss options. Of course the only option really being surgery. The doctor spoke to me at length and told me that surgery wouldn’t be performed on a teenager or really anyone under the mid-20’s, simply because there’s no way of knowing how much growth is still going to happen. And of course the breast tissue is still developing and changing. So I carried on for the next few years in the same way, a boob tube pushing down my natural breast tissue so that they would be less noticeable.

Ultimately my breasts made me feel really embarrassed. They sexualised my body without my permission.

I left Singapore and headed back to the UK to start university. At the time the whole glamour model scene seemed to be kicking off. Daily there were glamour models in the newspapers, the magazines and wherever else you’d come across them at the time. What made them household names? Their breasts. Many chose to actually get surgery to increase their breasts to align themselves with the career choice they had chosen. For me, this was a different way to see my body. I was given these “comedy sized boobs” and women were paying thousands to have their natural breasts doubled or tripled in size and here I was wanting to have mine essentially cut off. These women were choosing to sexualise their bodies with their breasts. It was their choice.

The more I witnessed the rise of the glamour model, the more I started to question my own breasts. It’s funny but it’s true. The more we visually see ourselves in others, the easier it is for us to accept what we deem as flaws.

Instagram and social media currently is definitely paving the way for body acceptance. What was hidden behind closed doors previously is now being shared with positivity. New mother’s are able to see other women with post partum bodies. Stretch marks are being loved. Masectomy scars are being shown and celebrated because they symbolise life… all of these may mean nothing to you. But to someone who struggles with that themselves, it means everything.

And that was how the glamour industry made me feel. It gave me a place where my breasts weren’t seen as ridiculous.

And so while I still had breast reduction surgery as my end goal, I decided to see if I could delve into the glamour industry. For those unaware, the glamour industry is topless modelling. It’s in essence sexualising the body for visual content. But the choice to sexualise my body was my choice. No one else could sexualise my body without my permission now because it felt like the control was mine.

For me, it was never about who was seeing my breasts. It was about seeing how others perceived my breasts in an environment where it seemed the larger the better. It was about being surrounded by other women where I felt normal. It was about all of us getting ourselves ready in the same changing rooms and none of us being shy or afraid to be topless around each other. It was a sisterhood.

Whereas before I felt I had to hide them away, squash them down and pretend they didn’t exist; I was now learning to fully embrace them. I wasn’t made to feel they were out of place for the first time in my life. And I felt in control of my body finally.

I spent 8 years in the glamour industry, I was incredibly successful at what I did. I invested what I earnt into property and when I became pregnant with my son I was able to walk away. The job was never a forever job- it can’t be really when actually it was based so heavily on quite shallow aethetics. But it was exactly what I needed as a young woman. The job had prevented needless surgery, it had given me my confidence back and ultimately I started to learn that we all feel flawed at times and that focus can become so detrimental. I worked with some of the most beautiful women, and yet they were fighting their own self loathing battles which I couldn’t understand. And I realised we are all on that journey and it’s only our own mindsets that can lead to that kind of acceptance otherwise there’s no stopping point. It doesn’t end.

I confronted my breast insecurity head on. The path it took me down set up the foundations for the life we have today as a family and it also led me to discover the power of photography. I spent many years being photographed and I know the power of a great picture. So after having my firstborn when I lost the ability to look “photogenic” in a picture (bearing in mind that was my job for the past 8 years), I then realised that being photogenic is actually a mindset. And after having my son I lost all the confidence I’d gained because my body had changed and I hadn’t accepted those new changes. When you lose confidence it’s a cycle and so I started to confront my own insecurities again.

I can not tell you the power that exists when you confront those uncomfortable feelings. It’s not even learning to love the way you look in an image. It’s about looking at an image and thinking “yeah, she’s actually alright” and accepting exactly who you are and the journey you’ve been on to get there.

Funnily enough my breasts after having my kids took themselves on a shrinking journey and so I’m grateful I didn’t have a breast reduction because I would literally have nothing left at all if I had! 😂 Typical isn’t it. All that energy wasted in my teenage years and my twenties and ultimately I’ll spend longer with the boobs I currently have then the boobs I spent years negatively obsessing over.

Donna Duke
Taking on body image and mental health issues with photography

Photography has always been a therapeutic tool for me. I think hiding away from cameras definitely reveals an insecurity and I think many women (myself included) have felt that genuine fear of being in front of the camera. In fact I talk about it a lot in my About Me section where I discuss how I avoided being in front of the camera when my children were little.

After having my children I was left with your typical mum tum- thankfully people are talking about these bodily changes more frequently but when I had my first child these issues were still covered up and it’s very isolating feeling like you’re the only person to have been left with scars, marks and an overhang. Diastasis recti and two c-sections have meant the body I had pre-children isn’t coming back without surgery. So my options were to either love my body with its new squishy texture or to continue obsessing over it and feeling insecure for the rest of my life or until I went down the surgical route- something I’m not comfortable with. Kudos to anyone that is happy to get surgery but I’m the biggest wimp so I avoid medical procedures wherever possible. I’ve summarised my issues in a short paragraph but the reality is it’s taken me maybe 5 years to fully embrace my new body and it’s an ongoing journey.

Sometimes when I speak to clients I talk about insecurities and how they feel about their bodies. It’s important for me to know as a photographer how a person perceives themselves and whether they have a body issue that I can help them with. Because the reality is sometimes our own body hatred is deep within our minds and visually it’s never as bad as we make it out to be. Photography is the perfect tool to help you on your path to healing. I want to be able to enable you to look at yourself objectively- to take away the negative voices you have about yourself.

I frequently say to my clients that we’re going to confront their insecurity if they’re happy for me to guide them through it. The worst that’ll happen is that nothing changes- they never need to see the images again and no one will ever know. But the best that can happen is that I can help them see themselves in a different light- through kinder eyes and I can help them start their healing journey. There is beauty is our differences and it’s wrong to think we should all have to be the same. I will also happily get my mum tum out for any client that doesn’t believe I have my own insecurities.

I wanted to share some stories from a couple of clients that have been in recently. Some wonderful women that allowed me to help them photograph parts of themselves they’ve struggled with. I’ll let them tell you their stories in their own words.

“I'm Debbie, I'm 50 years old and have had body dysmorphia for a fair part of my life.

My story begins at just 11 years old when I was diagnosed with a spinal condition called Scoliosis meaning curvature of the spine. At the beginning it was only a small curve but as I continued to grow so did the curve. It then became life threatening and I needed to have some major spinal surgery to save my life. I needed metal rods and wiring inserted to help the stop of the curve becoming worse. Because I was different I was bullied at school.

By the time I was 20 I'd endured 4 major spinal ops and some other procedures to help with my deformity- primarily a rib hump which saw me have some of my ribs removed. I now have a 16" scar right down the middle of my back. It makes me feel self conscience and ugly.

But Donna captured my back beautifully and in a way to confront my imperfections (to me) and show me my body as art. We all have things we don't always like about ourselves but doing this with Donna has been a good and positive experience.

I'm not going to say I love my body or myself still because body dysmorphia doesn't disappear overnight but i's made me look at myself slightly differently.”

Debbie

“Lots of people describe their journey with their body confidence as a journey. But in reality, it's more like a dance.

The process of accepting and loving my body hasn't gone from hatred and then progressed to love. There are times I love my body and times it frustrates me. That's the dance. I’m in it, constantly. There is no beginning and end destination. But I'm definitely no longer hating my body and it is the most empowering feeling.

My dance with my back has been quite an intense one. It's the part of my body where the tempo of the music changes frequently. Sometimes it's like 90’s RnB, sometimes its like the death march, like I'm going into battle with it.

I 100% accept all of my body and absolutely adore nearly all of it. I've learnt to embrace who I am, drown out the societal expectations of me as a woman and focus on what feels right for me.”

Kayleigh Confidence and Empowerment Coach

If you want to try and see if I can help you with your body image or your mental health issues through my photography please don’t hesitate to get in touch. The worst that can happen is that you don’t change your mindset with me, but the best that can happen is that we start you off on your journey to accept and learn to love exactly who you are and to feel good about it.

What is a boudoir shoot?

Boudoir; often mis spelt as buodoir, budoir, bodoir, boudior is a branch off of portrait photography but the image gives a more sensual and sexy feel than traditional portraiture. It doesn’t have to mean lingerie, high heels, stockings or full nudity. It can be whatever you need it to be and taken to a level of comfort that you have. If lingerie is your jam then I’m happy to photograph you in it. But if you just want to dip a toe into boudoir you might feel comfortable wearing our in studio white shirt instead which covers you up entirely, or using a white sheet to keep yourself more hidden. There are so many ways to incorporate boudoir into your photo sessions. So I thought I’d let you know what boudoir at Donna Duke-Llande Photography looks like:

  1. It’s a way to feel empowered and to appreciate your feminine form. They did it in the Greek and Roman days, and it’s time to bring that appreciation back for all female body types.

  2. It’s something that’s done just for you. It’s an incredible feeling knowing that you’ve done something out of your comfort zone, and while you might gift the image to a partner we all know it’s really something for you.

  3. It’s about being a bit more sensual in the imagery than traditional portraits. It’s about looking classy and creating something artistic that you will love.

  4. It’s about showing a bit of skin, but how much depends on you. The pose is just as important as the outfit and actually a jumper with the shoulder pulled down can be boudoir and just as sexy as being fully nude or in an incredible lace bodysuit.

  5. Your comfort is paramount and that’s why I work with an all female team who will make you feel comfortable throughout. We can close the set down if you prefer to just you and myself but rest assured your comfort always comes first.

  6. Boudoir can be part of your photoshoot if you want to try it. It doesn’t have to be the whole session.

5 reasons why investing in yourself is important

It sounds so self indulgent doesn’t it?

But it is so important that you invest in yourself because ultimately there’s just one of you and you are the only one responsible for your happiness.

So here are 5 reasons why investing is a necessity (in business and in life):

  1. 100% of the investment goes towards achieving your goals. When you invest in yourself, (your brand or your life) that investment is solely being put into you and helping you reach the desired outcomes you need or want. All that time, money and energy isn’t going elsewhere. It’s focussed on helping you achieve your goals.

  2. Frees up your time. Investing in yourself is another way of saying you’re outsourcing and that frees up your time and causes less stress. When it comes to work this could come in the form of getting a website developer or investing in yearly photographs that you can access easily for all your content needs- those jobs you don’t want to do can be done by someone else and instead you can use your time in an area of your business where you excel or enjoy some down time- down time when you’re a business owner is just as important as working consistently. In life you might get your nails done, or use a personal trainer… although you can paint your own nails or exercise at home the likelihood is you wouldn’t see the same results in the time it takes to use a professional service.

  3. Avoids burnout. If you’re not outsourcing or you’re taking on too much and not giving yourself time to enjoy life and experience moments of happiness you can guarantee burn out will happen. When you choose to invest in yourself you can limit burnout because you’re doing things that you want to do, for your well-being and happiness.

  4. Your productivity increases. When you invest in yourself ultimately you become happier and your relationships benefit from that too whether that’s at work or at home. You’ll often find you have more energy and your productivity increases because of that. Happy life = happy all around.

  5. More confidence. Investing in yourself is telling yourself that you're worth it. Acknowledging what you need and desire is such an important first step to giving you more confidence.

Money spent on you isn’t self indulgence. It’s investment. It goes towards your mental wellbeing. Whether you’re using that money to excel in life or business it’s an important investment to make.

Remember, you are worth investing in.

Fall in love with yourself this Valentines Day

Valentine’s Day is always an interesting date on the calendar isn’t it?

It’s the first proper event day as such on the calendar after Christmas, and it happens during the hardest few months of the year. Those months where we cling to any form of excitement because the dark days are long, cold and bitter. So even if we don’t actually intend to celebrate Valentine’s Day there’s no denying that it is a date that slowly creeps in.

The frustrating thing about Valentine’s Day is that it traditionally relies upon us being validated by someone else. And as lovely as that can be, it’s actually very damaging. Because what about those of us that don’t have partners? or those of us who feel forgotten on Valentine’s Day. Those of us that are going through difficult life issues and then feeling the pressure of this particular day looming?

Which is why for many years I’ve realised that Valentine’s Day should be about yourself. It should be about reconnecting with who you are and learning to love her and see her value. Nobody should validate who you are. Only you need to validate yourself.

A lot of how we feel about ourselves comes from the way we portray ourselves to the world. If we’re having a ‘good’ day we feel happier and more confident, but if we’re having a day where we feel less than comfortable it’s really hard to love ourselves during those moments. If those bad moments last a long time it really starts to affect us mentally.

As we get older and our bodies adjust and change it can be hard for many of us to love what looks back at us in the mirror. After all we’re bombarded daily by celebrities and models that have that ‘perfect’ body type. 

But let’s be honest, if you’re alive then your body is absolutely perfect in all senses of the word. It doesn’t matter if there’s a little wobbly bit here or there. Or you have a scar that runs along it. Or you have stretch marks. Or your boobs aren’t quite in the same place they were in your 20’s.  And yes while those celeb bodies might look amazing in magazines, we don't actually know what body hang ups they have themselves that we're unaware of.  

For those of you that have come in to see me, I've no doubt shared my post kids tummy with you- I like to show you that we all have parts of us we don't like.  Outwardly I look fairly petite and small but I have a body that will never wear a bikini ever again! But actually it doesn't matter and I've come to accept that part of me- although it took a long time.   

Your body will and does change, and it will continue to do so to keep you alive, well and healthy.

And you need to love it and yourself the entire time, not just on Valentine’s Day. But make this the Valentine’s Day where you step out of your comfort zone and really see yourself. Embrace just how wondrous and beautiful you truly are. Just like my gorgeous client did in this image which we took as part of the 40 over 40 project. She wanted to step out of her comfort zone and to see her body properly so she could learn to let go of the negative thoughts she has had over it for many years.

Every time she starts to think badly about herself this image is there for her to remind herself how incredible, brave, resilient and beautiful she truly is.

Do I really need a make up artist?

Some people are very personal about their make up, whether that’s because they like it to be exactly how they do it or as often is the case, they don’t wear much of it and don’t want to not be themselves in the portraits that are taken.

I completely understand that, and having a make up artist at your photoshoot is something I offer as a complimentary service.

You are never obligated to have to use one of my make up artists. So if you strongly feel that a make up artist wouldn’t be a great fit for you just let me know. As always every photoshoot is customised to your needs.

However, there are many benefits to having a make up artist on the day of your photoshoot, so if you are a little unsure here are 3 great reasons why you should use a professional make up artist for your portrait session:

  1. Professional make up artists are highly trained and skilled when it comes to applying make up for photography. They are able to use high end products to help remove unflattering sharpness caused by the high spec quality of modern cameras. While there’s benefits to having sharp images we don’t necessarily want to see every facial detail in HD!

  2. Normal everyday make up isn’t actually defined enough to be picked up on camera. So having your make up professionally applied can sometimes feel and look a bit heavy, but a make up artist isn’t preparing you for your everyday casual make up look, she’s preparing you for the strength of the lights and the way in which colour disappears quickly on camera. Even if it is a everyday causal look you’re going for you’ll need just a bit more definition then you’re used to to give the result you truly want.

  3. Make up artists are specialists in what they do and can alter looks throughout a session meaning we can go from casual to glam easily. Hair up or hair down? With a make up artist present we can go for a variety of different styles. Having someone on hand to pamper you is also a great way to enjoy the full process.

When you book a portrait with me you will immediately be offered a make up artist at your session. This will enable you to truly relax on the morning of your portrait session and fully embrace the process.

My current in house make up artists are:

Emma from Emma Ford Make Up

Holly from Carter Hair and Make Up

Sarah from Sarah Catherall Make Up

Bishop's Stortford make up artist
3 Things I need to know before your personal branding photoshoot

A personal branding session here is a fully customised process, so getting to know you is the most important part of a branding session for me. Mainly because you are the key ingredient to your business. You are the unique selling point. Clients are specifically buying from you.

Whether the images you need are for your website, social media, your LinkedIn profile, branding materials, your email signature and so on… a personal branding session will help your prospective clients connect to you and therefore your business.

So what kind of information am I looking for?

Well firstly I need to know what the images will be used for, that way we can make sure you have images to suit the various marketing materials. For example in blog posts you may want your images to be more down to earth and friendly. Whereas your website home page you may want to appear more professional and experienced within your field. Knowing how you will use your photos allows us the scope to really build your personality into various areas of your marketing.

I also need to know what your brand colours are so we can keep within your brand palette and make sure we aren’t creating images that’ll look completely out of context on your website or socials. It allows us to choose clothes and backdrops more appropriately or if you haven’t built your brand or know what brand colours you want to use, this may be the time we build that concept together.

Building a brand is all about understanding how your client will connect emotionally with that brand, so that is an important part to building your personal branding photoshoot. We want to make sure we communicate your brands personality. After all a picture is worth a thousand words. So finding out how you want people to feel when they interact with your brand is essential.

What to wear for a maternity photoshoot

Pregnancy is one of those occasions that needs to be celebrated because in reality it’s such a short period of time in our lives and such an incredible transformation happens. Whether this is your first child or your tenth you need to celebrate the incredible strength, resilience and superhuman powers you have for bringing new life into the world.

One of the biggest questions I get though is “what do I wear?“ -don’t worry I’ve got you covered!

A bodysuit

A simple black bodysuit will emphasise and show off your bump but keep you covered. There are bodysuits to compliment everybody and bring the right amount of va va voom depending on the look you want. You can get bodysuits with sleeves, sequins, no sleeve, deep v necks, high polo, lace, thong styles, full brief styles…

Fitted dress

A fitted dress brings elegance and style. It gives a very luxurious feel to an image. This can be something you already own (it doesn’t matter if zips don’t do up at the back, we can still work with it as long as it fits around the front) or something you might want to purchase.

Black underwear

This is a very simple look but it looks amazing. And of course most of us already have suitable underwear at home.

Fabric

The reality is you don’t really need to bring any clothes if nothing works, covering yourself with fabric might just be the look you’re after instead! Fabric can look so beautiful and sophisticated on a maternity photoshoot.

Jeans and a bra

This look is much more casual but still very eye catching and glam. And no doubt you have jeans at home! It doesn’t matter if you can’t do the buttons up, that just makes the belly pop even more and accentuate your beautiful bump.

Of course you also have access to my in studio wardrobe where we can pick and choose outfits that might compliment you and keep to the style you’re looking for. It’s time to have fun and capture stunning maternity portraits for you to treasure.

What to wear for boudoir photoshoots

I’m a big fan of adding some sauce to a photoshoot. It’s so unapologetically feminine and beautiful. But it can be scary to know what to bring or what to wear, or to understand your comfort levels during a photoshoot that might include a boudoir element.

So I thought I’d share some of my favourite boudoir outfits so you’re ready to bring a little je ne sais quoi to your photoshoot.

  1. Mens button down white shirt

  2. Black underwear set

  3. A bodysuit

  4. Stockings

  5. Birthday suit

Yes that’s right, we do sometimes go fully naked in the studio if you’re comfortable with the idea. We will carefully position you so fully covered up and its implied nudity instead of being full out there. We can even use in studio wardrobe materials to cover you and drape over you so you feel less exposed.

Donna Duke
How to get personal in your brand

It’s common knowledge that we need to show up in our brands- we need to be the faces and help to build the likability factor which leads to trust. But it can be hard to know how personal to get. So I thought I’d give three ways on how to get more personal in your business.

Choose your content pillars

You might think the only thing you can talk about is your business and indirectly or directly selling what you offer. But actually that kind of content gets really boring even if you are offering something great. So you need to mix it up a little and choose a variety of content topics that work with your brand to showcase what you do and your personality. I am a photographer, and I predominately work with women. Either female entrepreneurs or women looking to regain their confidence and learning to love themselves. I know how important it is for potential clients to see me as Donna and not just a generic photographer. They need to get an idea over my personality. I can be funny and light hearted and so I do like posts that show that side of me. Silly mistakes that I make and having the ability to laugh at myself. I think it helps them to see that I don’t look at myself through rose tinted glasses even though I’m an advocate for self love. We all have insecurities and that’s ok. I like to empower women too, and a lot of content I share is about female empowerment or how I like to empower myself and about learning how to do that. Or calling out the injustices that women face. It’s about starting those conversations. I’m a big fan of the local area as well, and will often share places and other businesses in the area that I like to use because it helps build a picture over who I am, where I hang out, my lifestyle and my hobbies. I’m a mum and I know many of my clients can relate, so I will post up bits about my children and my home life. Your content pillars really will depend upon your brand. My aim is always to make people feel comfortable and to feel like I’m a friend because that way if they come in for a photoshoot they know enough about me to be relaxed in my presence because being in front of my camera can be a vulnerable position for many. At the end of the day if your personality shines through, people will want to work with you because you ignite excitement, laughter and joy in them.

Blogs

Your website should include a blog. It’s such an important part of how you can be found online. Don’t underestimate the importance of blogging. Being personal on blogs is a way to connect to your audience. Using your platform to speak your truth and get personal in a professional way is a great chance to capture an audience that want to learn more about you and more about what you’re skilled at. I love photography but my clients want to learn about business and building their brands or about how to learn to love themselves and take better care of their mental wellbeing (coincidentally my some of my content pillars). I find that you can cross promote information from socials into blogs or vice versa. With a blog though you have more room to get deeper with your clients and form stronger connections.

Create your social media presence

Being on social media really does rely upon being social. It’s not about posting something and waiting for clients to come in and just watching your like count go up. The reality is it makes no difference if you have 6000 views on a reel if you’re not connecting with the people reaching out to you. In fact big numbers on socials doesn’t necessarily equate to a busy business. You need to really look deeper into the connections that can be made on socials in an organic way with the people that follow you and the individuals that could be your ideal client. You need to be replying professionally and as your brand dictates to comments left on your posts. You need to be getting your name out there by connecting with other local brands or individuals. You really just need to have that presence without being spam like. If you consistently show up and you’re of service and value to your followers, your hard work will pay off.

What's the difference between personal branding and headshots?

Personal branding is a relatively new concept in terms of what it can do for business. A headshot is simply that, a corporate headshot typically just of a persons face, but personal branding brings in personality and your unique self. For entrepreneurs being part of your own marketing has never been more important. It’s the part of your business that’s unique and will be what captures your clientele to you and your brand specifically.

I incorporate headshots into my personal branding sessions, but I also want to be able to tell your unique story through lifestyle images, photographs of you in action, photographs or you and your products. We can capture fine details and so much more. All of my sessions are customised to my clients so once we have an idea over your brand we can build a vision that works with you and your needs.

The end goal of a personal branding session is to make you more profitable in business so it’s an area you’ll want to invest in.

You should consider a personal branding session if you:

  • Are an entrepreneur

  • Want to level up in business with your visuals

  • If you are the face of your brand and you want to confidently put yourself out there to connect with your clients

  • You want your marketing to look polished and professional

Top 3 investments to brand your business

When you first start out as an entrepreneur it can be really overwhelming. There’s so much you need to do to be able to successfully launch. And being able to start on the right footing will enable you make and build decisions around your brand that keep your brand message clear and prevent you from overspending in areas that don’t require it.

There are 3 key investment areas that I believe all entrepreneurs should make when it comes to their personal brand, whether that’s starting up a brand or rebranding. These are the areas that should be focussed on.

Website

A good, clear website speaks volumes for your personal brand. If you aren’t tech savvy this is an area you may want to outsource. But with programmes such as Wix or Squarespace, it’s never been easier to create and develop a website on your own. This website is a Squarespace website and having used a variety of platforms over the years I have to say Squarespace is particularly user friendly. It’s just a matter of selecting a website template and then putting in your own images and copy to make it personal.

Logo

Your logo needs to help you stand out. It’s design is symbolic of what your provide and aesthetically it gives out a clear, concise message. There are cheap logo designers online, or logo programmes that churn out affordable logos. But this is an area you’ll want to invest in I believe, I’ve done it both ways and from experience hiring a designer is going to provide you with a bespoke logo.

Personal brand photography

The photos you show of your brand will be what brings your brand to life. It shows what you do, how you do it and the expertise and professionalism you have. You want your clients to meet the best version of you. A great brand photographer will help to create pictures that speak to your clients and build that trust with them. Your photographs will be used in all areas of your marketing, so you have to love the images of yourself so you can confidently put yourself out there in the various ways- on blog posts, in social media, on your website, on your business cards, on your LinkedIn profile etc.

There 3 areas will help to bring your brand message to your clients and achieve higher sales in your business. Investing in a great website, a bespoke logo and brand photography will always be worth it.

How does personal branding ACTUALLY help in business?

Branding is a word that’s thrown about a lot when it comes to establishing your business or brand. It goes far beyond the website design or the customised logo. Branding is all about the story of your brand and how you communicate that with your clients. In essence it’s what makes your business unique by conveying your skills and expertise in the field you work in in a variety of ways- photography is of course one of those areas and I wanted to talk to you today to be able to tell you how photography can be one of the most powerful elements of branding.

It helps to connect with your current and potential clients

A photograph allows consumers to connect with you on a level far beyond just a name or a faceless website. Brand photography shows clients who you are and that you’re trustworthy, because having your face out there shows a confidence in your product or service. It’s a fact that people are much more likely to buy something from someone they feel a connection with. And branding can help you to create that connection because photography gives them an insight into you.

It tells your story

With so many businesses now online, being able to stand out makes a difference. Studies have shown that opinions and judgements are formed in mere seconds of someone clicking onto your website. With that in mind you have limited time to tell your story to capture your potential clients interest. Visuals are the most eye grabbing when it comes to making that first impression. Great personal brand images tell your story and reveal your uniqueness within the market place, and that will increase conversion rates.

Pictures connect faster than words

Good copy is essential at being able to communicate with your clients but it’s the pictures that’ll grab them first and make them interested. For example, when you choose a hotel or a spa to book, the first thing you do is look at the images and see if the place aligns with your expectations over what you want. And then you go on to read the copy to see if what you visually like matches up with what is written. It’s the pictures that connect first and foremost with potential clients. Once you’ve visually pulled them in you then have your opportunity to tell them why you are the correct choice. But to do that you need to connect fast.

Wherever you are on your journey of being a business owner, having branding images will elevate you. and give you the power to be where you want to be. They help to communicate your story and to build trust in a fast, effective way. Brand photography is building a connection with clients on a deeper level and that’s why personal branding photogrpahy is so important.

Are you ready to create your personal brand story? Let’s get you started with a personal consultation.

Why you should get wedding portraits done

Your wedding day is one of the most memorable days in your life time and photographs are imperative to have as a long lasting legacy of such an important moment. For some couples the wedding day is where they want to capture all those memories, and for other couples having the chance to get back into their wedding outfits and have some special portraits done together without the stress of taking time away from friends and family is their preferred choice. It’s more intimate and calming and the pictures are perfect for framed wall art.

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So I was thrilled to have the chance to take some special portraits for Tyrone and his bride Viwe, images that can be shared with Viwe’s family back home in South Africa who were unable to fly over to the UK but were able to watch the ceremony online.

While I love the trend for documentary wedding photography- and actually it’s my preferred option too for a wedding day, there’s nothing quite like having special portraits done to elevate the occasion and to have something that lasts longer and is more impactful from such a great occasion.

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Most Curious- The wedding show for the style savvy couple feature

Today I wanted to share with you an article written by Most Curious- The Wedding Show for the Style Savvy Couple where I go in depth on the the Hold Still wedding picture that was selected as part of a nationwide hunt to become a digital exhibition, in collaboration with the National Portrait Gallery that was spearheaded by the Duchess of Cambridge.

I discuss the micro wedding we had and the regrets I have over it. I really wasn’t present on the day, I can’t even remember the meal we ate or whether I enjoyed it or not. Emotionally it was a very difficult day for me where I just rushed my way through it. I also discuss the plans for our wedding in Crete and how the picture that was chosen as part of the exhibition came into existence.

Hope you enjoy the article and the pictures which are from our actual wedding day too.

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The National Portrait Gallery | Hold Still

My portrait “Lockdown Wedding” not only made it into the Historic England archives, but it was also selected as one of 100 portraits out of 31,000 to represent the UK during lockdown. Spearheaded by the Duchess of Cambridge, I think this is one of the biggest accolade’s to have come out of Lockdown for me and it certainly gave me the much needed boost to fulfil my dreams of becoming a portrait photographer.

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A panel of judges including the Director of the National Portrait Gallery and the Duchess of Cambridge, selected the final 100 portraits which were also shown to Her Majesty The Queen, and went on to make up a digital portrait exhibition for The National Portrait Gallery.

In collaboration with Co-op, there has also been a community exhibition. The images have been displayed around the United Kingdom on posters and billboards up and down the country, including the hometowns of where the images were taken. My image has been displayed in Camden, Edinburgh, Glasgow, Manchester, London Waterloo and of course Bishop’s Stortford! A physical digital exhibition also took place in the grounds of the National Memorial Arboretum in Staffordshire.

A poster has kindly been created for me which I will be framing and hanging up with pride in the studio!

Awards from The Portrait Masters | 2020

As a portrait photographer I’m constantly learning and refining the way that I work. I spend a lot of time educating myself to provide my clients with the most exceptional portraits of themselves and their family members. Which is why I often submit images that I have taken into international competitions so I can get feedback on what I’m creating.

This year I have been so pleased to have been awarded four bronze awards from The Portrait Masters which is judged by internationally acclaimed photographers and educators.

I’m very much looking forward to submitting more images and continuing to learn from the very best in the portrait world and working towards my accreditation.